Why my palms don't touch?: Are you the king or the butterfly?

All of us delve into our sub-conscious every time we sleep and experience the event as a 'reality'. Now the most important question is, there is an observer that experiences both conscious and sub-conscious minds or events, can you pin-point that observer? You may be living two different and in some cases opposite lives in your conscious and sub-conscious world, do you realise that?