The art of selfishness

It''s okay to be selfish...but in a healthy and constructive form of selfishness. This is what this book by David Seaberry is trying to tell you. The truth is that being a selfish person is the exact opposite of what you think when it comes to taking into account others. If you become selfish, you will become better able to take into account and help others. Your preference for yourself will make you give it the most appropriate care for you. This, of course, does not mean that you become a person who is indifferent to others around you. What the writer means is that you ignore the things that exhaust you and are unnecessary in the life around you, in order to preserve your right. Find yourself in balance and comfort. By ensuring that you have the appropriate amount of positive selfishness, you will find that you will enjoy fewer losses, and this will spare you many of the pains associated with the tension of being concerned for the approval of others. Moreover, your priority gives you the opportunity to consult yourself. Before you undertake any action that you are not obligated to, you will wonder if it causes you comfort or unhappiness, and save yourself the trouble of experiencing it with insufficient awareness of its effects.