What happens when love doesn t look like the life you planned? A bold exploration of desire, autonomy, and the courage to live truthfully-- The first time, I'm afraid: of things falling into place, of knowing deeply that this is right. That all along I've been fighting a tide that with one wave would wipe out ordinary life. Sheffield. 2019.Evie and her husband meet a woman they've only spoken to online, leading to a night that changes their understanding of love. They meant their vows. So how did they end up here?In Me, You, Them, Evie shares a raw account of life in an open marriage, exploring desire, autonomy, and the emotional complexity of redefining partnership. This memoir delves into the body as a gateway to truth, examining what we want, who we choose, and how we let go of unspoken rules. The rules we have lived inside are not real. I m not sure it s possible to go back, even if I wanted to.