The first step anyone who wants a successful marriage should take is to discover him/herself first. Discovering yourself and your life purpose will give you foresight, insight, hindsight and oversight on how to settle down for the right choice. Aristotle said: "e;Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom."e;The most successful married people I know discovered themselves and their purposes before marriage! Discovering yourself and your purpose is the first step everyone should take before choosing a life partner. This is what How to Make a Successful Marriage tries to teach and entertain us with! T.S Eliot said: "e;We shall not cease from exploration, and the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started and know the place for the first time."e;