He Cheated! SO NOW WHAT?

Life can sometimes strike a blow that will knock the wind out of you. Before you know it your are curled up in a corner unable to speak or breathe . As you lay there with your thumb in your mouth, crying uncontrollably, hundreds of questions violently bombard your mind and you dont have the answer to any of them. However, in a breif moment of clarity you realize that there is only one question that needs to be answered right now. Am I going to stay down here and wallow in self pity or am I going to get up put my dukes and and let the scrapping began.