Happy in Spite of People

Why get frustrated and stressed with others and yourself when you can be happy and thrive Happy in Spite of People gives you proven strategies, approaches and social skills to get along with the array of personalities at work. People smarts is your advantage in a workplace where job competence and experience no longer suffice. People smarts also makes your life more joyful "Ellen Castro's warm and witty book welcomes you to the feline world of Mr. P and its many colorful cats who will surely remind you of people you know. As the wise and spiritually-enlightened Mr. P tries to be a friend and coach to the frightened and the narcissistic, the aggressive and the depressed, he has much to teach readers about being at peace with themselves, their Creator and some of the challenging characters who come into all our lives." Dr. Lee Bolman, Co-author Leading with Soul and Reframing Organizations, The Marion H. Bloch, University of Missouri Chair in Leadership. This uplifting, insightful and practical parable is an essential guide in today's edgy, challenging world. Happy in Spite of People will show you how to change your narrative to change your approach with people thus enabling improved communications, relationships and teamwork. One such narrative is that everyone is on your team for greatness - no exceptions. With this one change of perspective, everything changes. You can learn how to smile and respond to others' behaviors instead of reacting out of frustration and anger. Most importantly, Happy in Spite of People is a salve for the weary soul in a world that feels unsafe and in chaos. The secret of being Happy in Spite of People is seeing yourself through the eyes of God - loved, wanted and needed. This light-hearted yet profound parable showers you with the truth of who you are so you can deal compassionately with yourself and with others. Your tormentors will become your mentors. The parable provides reassurance that everything works together for good. The parable introduces 12 complex human personas and personalities that are represented as cats. The cats deliver life messages and the struggles and tensions of interpersonal relationships. You know these cats. There is Hoover, the narcissist, who perceives himself as the cat's pajamas. There is Scarlett, the drama queen, who needs to be on Paw-zac and Bondo, the fix-it cat. Get the book to get acquainted with the other 9 cats. Master your interactions with refreshing insights, proven techniques, concise tips and timeless truths for having healthier relationships. Happy in Spite of People alleviates the "mystery" of identifying various personalities and how to adjust to their style thus optimizing your interactions and creating heartfelt connections of trust. Take charge of your choices and communications to achieve better results and more success Happy in Spite of People makes people skills practical and fun for everyone Unwind, reflect, learn, smile and ignite your relationships while gaining a greater sense of significance, meaning, self-confidence and true success. You were created on purpose for a purpose You are meant for greatness You are meant to be happy Live your greatest and most fulfilling life now Ellen Castro, is a global executive coach and trusted business consultant, a powerhouse speaker and an empowering award-winning author. You are her purpose Since Ellen's messes became her miracles, she wants to help you own your choices to live an authentic, most wonderful life.