Choosing Divorce

There is an unwritten rule in our culture that to divorce someone means that we no longer Love them. Yet, I am convinced the question we should be asking ourselves in the face of divorce is not whether we still Love this person, but rather HOW CAN I LOVE THIS PERSON MORE?By the time I started asking these questions, it was undeniable that something was deeply wrong with our marriage. Neither of us were happy and neither of us knew what to do about it. Armed with two choices (stay or leave) and a commitment to loving him more, I set out to uncover the path that was right for me. I discovered that the problem in our marriage wasn t that either one of us had done something wrong. It was that we didn t know what Love is. More than anything, this book is a journey to discover Love. It is the dismantling of what we have learned Love to be (conditional and co-dependent) and the rebuilding of a relationship structure that is built on a foundation of Love that is unconditional and whole. I am not advocating for more divorce. I am advocating for more Love. I do not care whether you are married or divorced. I care whether you are living, breathing, and being in a state that is Love.