Have you ever wondered why some women are exploited ... while others are treated like royalty? Do you spend your time listening to your family and friends tell dramafilled stories ... when you'd rather be resting or taking care of house chores? Do you wonder how some women stay thin, snag husbands, and raise great kids ... while others eat poorly, remain single, and are married to their jobs? Now, in Are You a Mule or a Queen?, author Lisa Blackwell shows us how to draw clear boundaries between what we would like to do for others and what we must do for ourselves ... to keep from losing ourselves in the burdens we unwittingly take on