Nothing Exciting

In 1993, a drunk driver’s collision in Cape Town left Emil and Fran’s infant son Timmy with a devastating brain injury and Fran with severe injuries, shattering their dream of emigrating to New Zealand. From the ICU’s chaos, they embarked on an unexpected journey into special needs parenting, moving from South Africa to Ireland and the UK. Raising Timmy alongside their younger children, Emma and Luke, they faced medical setbacks, societal ignorance, and personal exhaustion, yet found hope through community, adaptability, and joy.

Nothing Exciting is both a memoir and practical guide chronicling Emil and Fran’s 30-year, and three country journey raising their son, Timmy, who developed severe autism and complex needs after suffering this traumatic brain injury at nine weeks old. With a sassy, heartfelt voice infused with South African humour, Emil shares their story of resilience, love and laughter, offering actionable wisdom for special needs parents and their supporters.

Structured in 10 thematic chapters – Community, Adaptation, Aspiration, Balance, Persistence, Inclusion, Self-Care, Resilience, Joy, and Empathy – the book blends vivid anecdotes, cultural richness, and practical tips, making it both an inspiring narrative and a valuable resource. A glossary of South Africanisms, a timeline, Timmy’s art and a resource list enhance its accessibility and utility.