Meet me in the Middle

This is not a dating manual. There is no eight-step plan to find your person. There are no "e;high value"e; versus "e;low value"e; lectures. There is no scripting of feminine or masculine energy. There is no algorithm. The whole point of this book is that the algorithm-ing of love is part of what broke us in the first place.This is a companion. A small, honest, slightly-tired-but-not-jaded book about how to find another person without losing yourself in the process, in EITHER of the two opposite ways we tend to lose ourselves. How to wade in without drowning. How to keep your boundaries without building a fortress no one can reach. How to come back to yourself when you already overcorrected in one direction or the other. How to do the inner work that means the next time, if there is a next time, you arrive whole.