So the question is: how DO you choose your jewellery?Do you even wear jewellery?In this the first in a series of anthologies entitled, "This is Kamau," I explore the many facets of love, the raw pain and the unbridled ecstasy, the highs and lows of the world's most popular emotion. Love is the star - both villain and victor - and I am the (not too) innocent victim, eager to volunteer, to try, to err, to learn, to grow, to share."I Choose My Men The Same Way I choose My Jewellery" (I hope) stays true to the tenets that I hold dear: honesty, authenticity, sincerity; regardless of the pain, the shame, the vulnerability.How do you choose your jewellery?Me, I prefer diamonds.Kamau Mahakoe