Emotional Women Can't Win the Dating Game

Most women who lead with emotion in dating do not gain respect or commitment. They get used, drained and left behind while believing they were building something real. They think their love and patience will prove their value, but men do not respond to emotional giving with loyalty. Men watch your reactions and your boundaries from the first day they meet you. When you hand over everything emotionally, you tell him you are cheap and easy to control.Many women behave like wives to men who have not even decided to be boyfriends. They cook, clean, give intimacy, give money and time, listen to endless problems, and show patience that is not earned. This creates no gratitude. It creates contempt. A man respects what costs him. When he sees he can have you without paying, without effort, without giving, he loses desire and sees you as a resource. He may use your car, your home, your body, your money and your energy, and you think you are building a future. In reality you are only building his comfort.Men do not feel sympathy for women who break down emotionally. They feel superior to them. When you cry, plead, or beg for clarity, he does not feel guilty. He feels strong. He feels that you will not leave and that he can do more without consequences. He knows you are more afraid of losing him than he is of losing you. This makes him bold in his disrespect. He stops putting in effort. He stops pretending. He will stay as long as you give and will leave when a better opportunity appears.Inside, you'll get:• Rules that flip the power back into your hands• Language to use when he pulls away• How to turn attention into money, gifts, and loyalty• Why emotional women always lose the prize• How to stay sweet without getting stepped onIf your emotions cost you everything, this book teaches you how to charge for them.