A Normal Relationship Does Not Exist

Dealing with love as a young minority is tough and we just have to wrap our minds around the fact that normal sometimes does not exist for us. "I just want a normal relationship". I hear this way too often from females around my age group. So I ask; what is a normal relationship? For me, the word normal coincides with the word standard and I don't think there are any standards to any relationship. All relationships have their problems, big or small.